‘I don’t know what my needs are?’ 16/30 Live stream challenge.

Many of the clients I work with are unable to say what they want because they are unclear about what they need. They often say that no one had ever asked them before so I often get blank faces and long pauses as the reality of not understanding or knowing what their needs are hit home. This is always an aha moment for me because it means that conversations going forward will begin the unravelling of them seeing themselves with a new sense of curiosity about want they want. In this live I talk about the importance of stepping back to explore your needs so you can step forward and claim what you deserve with clarity.

6 types of racial stress and what to do about it.

With the media full of more racial stress and trauma from the Armard Arbury trial, the death of Malcom X’s daughter, the Windrush scandal and Kyle Rittenhouse, it has been a very distressing week. It often feels like we can never catch a break to breathe and grieve so every so often, I’ll share a reminder of how to deal with it. Today, I’m sharing 6 types of racial stress which I hope you will find useful. 

 

Self Hate Healing Hack!

After years of not liking ourselves it can often be hard to set boundaries as part of our new commitment to self love.

One of the things that gives me so much joy is seeing how the Sacred Sistas in the mastermind have grown from using the community to practice and share what I call ’emotional book ending.’

It’s a really powerful way to set the boundary and get support to deal with any difficult feelings or backlash from the process. Click below to watch the video and get the tea on how it works!

African Health and Wellbeing Day with Nigel Stewart

I thoroughly enjoyed this rich, cultural, playful and passionate conversation with Nigel Stewart. We talked about his early entrepreneur roots, the legacy of healing for our community, politics and negotiating whiteness. I also asked him, is it lovers rock or bashment? fried or boiled dumplin? ?? and of course we talked all about how to get the best out of the African Health and Wellbeing Day. One of my fave live streams to date!Enjoy!

The One Thing You Need to Master Your Healing.

Greetings Family,

The Yard of Greatness podcast is back and I’m excited about sharing today’s really simple empowerment seed. Sometimes we can get so caught up in trying to control everything about our healing process which often only creates more stress. In this session, I share one simple reminder that will keep you moving forward even when things get tough. Enjoy!

 

Racial Sobriety Gifts.

Yaasssss, I completed my first virtual conference and although I’m knackered, I learned so much! Thank you to those who participated and contributed, I could never have done this alone. Now you know how much I love my peeps, so you know I have to share some of the goodies from the conference.

If you were not ale to attend and would like a free taste of the experience, you can now download the 5 speaker shares and 1 masterclass with love, from me! Topics include:

Self Acceptance and Food addiction.

Unworthiness and Underearning.

Trauma, codependency and relationship addiction.

Interracial sponsorship.

The power of cultural top and bottom lines.

 

How to start a POC meeting in your primary fellowship.

If these resonate, you can listen to them at www.racialsobrietyrooms.com