5 reasons why black people lie!

Most of us like to think that we are honest and talk about wanting others to be honest with us. However, the reality is that many can’t hold the truth about what they do to themselves or others as a consequence of not dealing with their pain. In todays session, I share 5 reasons black folks lie and the importance of keeping your side of the street clean.

Study Circle Selection #3 Rest is Resistance By Tricia Hersey from The Nap Ministry.

In this session I share the 3rd book selection for my next Sacred Sista Study Circle launching in October. Rest is Resistance. By Tricia Hersey AKA The Nap Bishop. Join me to explore an overview of our complex relationship with rest and how you can work with me in the study circle to embrace this powerful, long awaited text. Click here to find out more details about study circle.

Sacred Sista Study Circle Selection #2: The Body is not an Apology. The Power of Radical Self-Love. By Sonya Renee Taylor.

In this session I share the 2nd book selected for my next Sacred Sista Study Circle launching in October. The Body is not an Apology. The Power of Radical Self-Love. By Sonya Renee Taylor. Join me to explore the relationship with our black bodies and how you can work with me in the study circle to embrace this powerful text for more self acceptance. Full Study Circle details can be found here. 

Honoring Our Ancestors.

As the world watched the funeral of Queen Elisabeth II, I wanted to hold a space for our community to remember our ancestors and grieve what was lost as a result of the institution she stood for.  Join me and  fellow therapist Yvonne J Douglas  for this sacred session of meditation, libation and sharing as we honour our sorrow and empower ourselves as a community to reclaim who we are and find the courage to dream and hope for more unity.

Three things to do when you feel stuck.

No matter how long you’ve been on the healing path there will be times when you feel stuck and that’s ok. As you peel off each layer, things will surface that require deeper exploration, thoughts and processing. This means that sometimes, you’l feel stuck. Sometimes your brain will be like, really? Are you sure you want to look at that? Are you ready? This is your psyches way of telling you pay attention and prepare for the next level healing. In this session I share the 3 things I do to move through stuckness.

 

The 4 black women who keep me straight when I’m strugglin’.

Despite all the stuff I share about taking care of yourself, I am human which means that sometimes there are days when I just feel like sh*t. With parenting, college essays and dealing with menopausal hormonal insomnia, things sometimes feel really hard. It’s during these times when I lean on my powerful sacred sista squad to put me straight. In this weeks live I share about the amazing black women in my life that nurture, advise, support and keep me accountable.

‘I’m stuck in negative thinking!’

Without a safe space to process, many of us have buried difficult feelings for years. Therefore, it makes sense that our negative thinking is the emotional leaking out of a difficult past. An important part of the healing process is understanding that it’s not linear. There is no golden destination and sometimes there will be moments when things just feel sh*t as the layers come off. In this week’s live, I share the 5 tools I use when this funk gets in the way.